Freedom

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Liberty is a mental state. Freedom is an emotional state. It is a resurrection. Tantra is both liberating and freeing. It can allow you to allow yourself to experience sensations and feelings you have never experienced before. Other worldly. Having this experience by yourself, for yourself, can be a brand new beginning into oneness with self, oneness with all. How is your mind? How is your heart? Are you moving on about life in a linear fashion? Are you just “sticking with the program?” Or are you ready to embrace all of who you are? Ready and willing to embrace the fears and fears that lay dormant in you you are not consciously aware of?

Working on our fears is probably one of the most challenging things we will do on this earth. But it is the most freeing. Being able to get out of self so that we can tap in, tune into our self (Spirit within) will serve us not only in this world, but the world beyond.

I can be of assistance for you to start that path. I am here as a listening guide helping you to move beyond yourself, offering words of wisdom that will give you strength to do the work. Nonetheless, you will be the one doing the work. For all of us are responsible for self.

 

In Love and Light,

Barbara Anne Rose

Coaching = Caring

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Do you have a coach? Are you looking for a coach? A coach can help you get from point A to point B a lot faster than many other means. A coach is someone who genuinely cares for your soul. They are there for you throughout your journey of whatever you are desiring to accomplish. I have come across several of my massage clients (or who wish to be my massage clients). As I hear them speak and they ask my professional opinion of the type of service they need, and I mention coaching, they shy away from it. I have come to the conclusion many people really do not know what it means to coach someone. They confuse coaching with counseling. And men generally shy away from talking about FEELINGS and EMOTIONS. Either because they don’t want to talk about such personal matters or they feel coaching is not what they need. But over and over again it is coaching AND massage they need. Because what they discuss and or want to discuss they want to discuss it in a massage setting. In a massage setting, this is not the time to discuss what’s bothering you on an emotional, spiritual, sensual or spiritual level. Can I help someone emotionally, spiritually, with my touch? Yes, I can. But when they are talking to me about certain matters there is only so much talking that can happen without it disturbing a massage (touch) session. To more fully be able to help another with the issues they bring to me, coaching sessions is the option I have available for them to use. It is a service I offer. I offer it because I have come across hundreds of individuals throughout my time being a massage therapist. It is why I decided to offer coaching and mentorship programs.

What is different with the Coaching and Mentorship Programs I offer is that I integrate the whole person. Clients of mine are not just paying me to listen to them, ask pertinent questions, and be nonjudgmental. What they receive when they use these services from me are also:

 

An Exercise Program

Nutritional  Guidance

A Caring Person

 

In Love and Light,

Barbara Anne Rose

 

Communication in our Sexual Encounters

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Communicating honestly is the most important thing we can do for our relationships. Many individuals today have trouble communicating their thoughts, their feelings, whats going on inside the mind. Working with my clients I have seen communication breakdown over and over again. They get tired. They get exhausted when they feel they have to repeat themselves to get their point across. What if we could imagine stepping into the other’s shoes. Even if only a little. We’re then able to get out of ourselves and into somewhat of a state of understanding where the other person is coming from. It’s hard sometimes to get out of ourself, our emotional heart center and into a Spirit centered place. Everything really is a lot easier when we can be directed from Spirit. If your someone who doesn’t believe that we are Spiritual beings inside human bodies, then I ask you to think it from whatever place you can that lets you think outside the physical self. If your more comfortable using the word “intuition”, “higher self”, “guides’, go ahead, Use what you are comfortable with.

When it comes to our sexuality, communication it still very important. We need to not be afraid to express what we would like to see happen in our sex lives. Men generally want to please their partner, but if their partner isn’t willing or afraid to communicate what he or she wants, then both parties get left disappointed. However, when we can be open to discussions around our sexuality, what we want, don’t want, or even what we would like to just talk about, then we open the door for further enhancement of the relationship. Weather an idea is acted out isn’t necessarily the means to the communicating, it’s the effects that happen during and after the communication! One of these after effects is a feeling of relaxation; a lift off the shoulders of what’s ben during inside to speak.

With the services I provide, such as my email and personal development coaching, I can guide you on what to say, what subjects to stay away from, the tone of your voice, body expressions, intentions behind your words, in order to help facilitate a healthy journey into a new sexual life.

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In Love and Light,

Barbara Anne Rose

HOURS LONG ORGASMS

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HOW WOULD YOU LIKE TO HAVE ORGASMS LASTING FOR HOURS??!! THE GOOD NEWS IS YOU CAN. THIS CAN BE ACCOMPLISHED ALONE AND/OR WITH YOUR PARTNER.

This course reveals that there are essentially two types of orgasm.

Virtually every man and many women have experienced the explosive genital orgasm. Masters and Johnson, the noted sex pioneers, defined this type of orgasm as:

“The sudden discharge of accumulated sexual tension resulting in rhythmic muscular contractions in the pelvic region characterized by an intense sensation of pleasure.”

The explosive genital orgasm is the more common orgasm, but it is ultimately the less fulfilling one.

Apparently, it was the only kind of orgasm that Masters and Johnson, were aware of — and that’s probably the case for you as well!

To purchase click below and you can start today.

INCREASING YOUR ORGASM

In Love and Light,

Barbara Anne Rose

Couples Massage Valentines

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Yesterday I and one of my sons were driving down to Bel Air, Md discussing many things Spiritual and Metaphysical. As we were talking a thought appeared in my head, (or perhaps from the depths of my inner being) knowledge. I love it when that happens. It’s an awakening. An oh wow, I get that. And then I ask the question, “Am I the only one that gets that? or Has anyone else figured this out? Duh, it seems so simple now.” I’m saying this to lead you into your own mind to wonder what the hell I’m talking about. Well, since my subject line is couples massage valentines, it’s about couples massages.

Have you ever had a couples massage and you and your honey are given massages by two separate people in two different rooms? THAT IS NOT A COUPLES MASSAGE. Thats just two people getting massages at the same time and you happen to be coming in together as a couple. How disappointing is that?! I bet that’s not what you were expecting. Or has this scenario ever happened to you.

You and your honey made an appointment to receive a couples massage and you are in the same room, but the therapist wraps you up like a cocoon? And at to far a distance to be close with your partner? Again, I ask, what kind of “Couples” massage is that! Again, it’s just two people in the same room. Probably NO connection with your mate in any way. Two physical bodies in a room being massaged by two separate massage therapists.

I think, and this is what I discussed with my adult son, is that it is important that the couple receive touch by the same therapist. The therapist works on both people at the same time. He (or she) develops and maintains the connection for the couple. The massage therapist creates a sacred space for the couple. It’s not just about having oils or candles to imbue a mood. The therapist’s touch does that. I’ll tell you what. I know I am able to do that. I know my gifts. I acknowledge my gifts. I USE my gifts. In every single session I give to others, no matter the type of massage it is. When I give a couple a massage I am working with THEIR energies. I am using my self that facilitates a mixing, winding, turning of energies within the two beings on the table, with my energy, in the entire room. It turns into an out of body awareness. Or at least a place where the couple feels relaxed, free, and their sensuality as a couple.

When I was in massage school already certified to give massages I was telling the other students I had a couple coming in for a massage. I will never forget it. Some of the students asked, “How are you going to do that? That’s impossible.” They didn’t see it possible for one person to massage two people at the same time. I didn’t care what they thought. I knew I could do it and do it successfully. My thinking was also that it is much more simple than they were making it out to be.

I have two massage tables. I have them close together with just enough space for me to be in between. I typically start the massage on the woman’s head, neck, face, around her shoulders and down the back. Then I move to the man doing the same thing. Then I move myself in between the tables and massage both of their arms (the arms closest to me) at the same time. It is quite easy. It doesn’t require thought for me to perform this. I also do their abdomen and legs at the same time. I do as much as I possibly can on BOTH people at the same time. Then I move back and forth from man to woman (or woman to woman) and back into the  middle again near the end of the session connecting them as a couple. Maybe I take the hand of the male and place it n the females shoulder. Maybe I take the woman’s hand and place it on the mans belly. Maybe I take the hand of the man and the hand of the woman and place both of their hands on my heart, rest for a few seconds and say, “Thank You.” All of this allows a creation, a connection, with the two of them, for the two of them. Massage modality for couples is Esalen. Therefor the draping is different.

If you and your honey are looking for a true Couples Massage fill out this contact form and I’ll get back to you ASAP.

90 minute minimum – Tantric $475

2 hrs – Tantric $550

2.5 hrs – Tantric $625

3 hrs – Tantric $700

 

I am extending my hours to Sundays for the month of February.

Monday-Friday 9-8

Saturday 9-8

Sunday 9-8

 

Be Blessed and Stay Humble

Barbara Anne Rose

Valentines Day

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Valentines’s Day is close among us. Have you thought what you will get for your sweetie?

When you schedule a couples massage with Goddess of The Rose, she will enlighten your Spirit, soothe your soul, ease your mind and body as well as receive a rejuvenating experience for the two of you as a couple. You know you deserve it.

Goddess of The Rose can also teach you how to give and receive sensual massage in her workshops and classes so that you can please your partner. Visit her services page here. Visit her workshops here

In Love and Light,

Barbara Anne Rose

Goddess of The Rose

Prostate Self-Care

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Men over the age of fifty should get their prostate checked yearly. To help yourself on an ongoing basis click the article below to read how Ayurvedic products can help you. If you would like to purchase products to help yourself keep a healthy prostate click here:

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With Love and Light,

Barbara Anne Rose

Goddess of the Rose

The Afterlife

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The afterlife is something many are intrigued about and would like to learn of. But I need to ask you, how many are sincere in receiving this type of information? Do I know all the answers? Of course not. Nobody does. Anyone who has been on the other side and has come back or those who are able to “see” beyond the veil, their experiences are all theirs. It does not necessarily mean everyone will experience the same as another. Our life is an example of what we may experience on the other side depending upon many factors.

First, I believe, it depends upon how we treat others.

Secondly, I believe it is a true reflection of self.

Thirdly, I believe, it is about how spiritually enlightened we have become while in this physical world.

When we pass from this life into the next, when we see our loved ones, this is not an indication that we are seeing that particular person. What it often is, is a memory we have of that person. Keep in mind you are you and no one else. No one lived your life but you. Your experiences all belong to you. Your emotions all belong to you. Your feelings all belong to you. Your actions all belong to you. The way you perceive and react all belong to you. It’s about taking responsibility for ALL parts of our life and not blaming others. It’s about love and forgiveness to self and others, no matter what has happened. Your a Spiritual Being inside a physical body. This is fact. Why do you feel you need “proof” from some scientific study to prove a Spirit resides in the body. When you are able to recognize there is a Spirit inside you that is able to help you in this life, that is the beginning of the possibilities for miracles to happen, for a bright future, to help you make decisions in your life that will guide you each step of the way to bring out the best in you!

Spirit – its what we carry around inside us. When the physical body dies, Spirit still has free will to go and do in the Spirit realm. Therefore, because we still have free will, this means that not everyone releases old patterns or automatically loves and forgives all. Unforgiveness and an unloving attitude can go with us after death. Hence the reason why their are good, bad and evil spirits among us and in Spirit world. Let’s not fool ourselves into thinking that just because we die and pass out of the body, it doesn’t mean everything is going to be peachy king. Arrogance keeps one from realizing full truth. Will you like me less because of my take on this subject? Maybe you will. Maybe you will not. And that’s okay because I’m not here to please your soul in that way. I won’t be your fluffy bed of soft cotton and lilies. (I was going to say Roses but Roses have thorns and Roses will pinch and gnaw at the heart and soul to help wake you up!)

In Love and Light,

Barbara Anne Rose

Goddess of the Rose

Donate and help me give FREE services to disabled veterans

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I am asking, no I am pleading for your time to read this and then to donate whatever you can, so I can offer my massage services for free to disabled veterans!!

I have always had a huge heart to people who go through great suffering. I am deeply grateful I have the life I do. My heart deeply feels burdened for veterans who have lost limbs, have suffered deep wounds from being burned, loss of sight or hearing, paralysis, suffering from PTSD. I work everyday to help others who want and need my healing touch. For some I know I am their last resort. Many search all over the Internet looking for just the right therapist for their conditions, issues, someone to talk to who is able to see them for who they are, allowing them to safe and comfortable to recieve a session from me. Weather that session is a massage service, a coaching session, some spiritual guidance or counseling, I’m there for them. I provide an all around mixture of physical, emotional, mental, and Spiritual healing. I NEED to be so successful that I can freely give severely disabled veterans a chance for recovery. Your donations will help. Please consider sending. Even if it is $5, $10, $20, $100, or $1,000, I give you my word, it will go towards helping a disabled veteran receive a free service.

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In Love and Light,

Barbara Anne Rose

Goddess of The Rose

 

Heart Opening

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Have you seen recently on the news about ways to sit and stand to boost your confidence? As I was watching this newsworthy piece of work, I realized all these confident poses were done in a way that shows opening of the heart chakra. When we allow our heart chakra to be open, we are allowing the universe to bring to us heart warming people into our life. As well as opportunities for us to expand ourselves even more. Similar to the way we feel when we smile verses when we frown. It takes more energy to frown (and more muscles) than it does for us to smile. So raise your arms above your head. Turn your hands over so that the palm of your hand is up. Stand straight. Shift your shoulders in an upright position. Raise your head.

What ticks me off is that we “need” a psychologist with a M.D. or Ph.D to confirm this? Or any other “scientific proof” that sitting or standing in such a way is proof we will feel more confident!

Why is it that we humans seem to want or need scientific proof for EVERYTHING! We are smarter than we think. We are not unintelligent pieces of meat that need all of this or all of that crap. Yes, some of it is absolute fucking crap. We dont have knowledge of everything but I believe when it comes to feeling better about ourselves, I would at least like to believe that we KNOW smiling feels better to us in many ways than it does in how we feel when we are frowning. And we know we feel better when we stand straight, hips in line, shoulders up, head up, looking forward. Our eyes are more open. Our ears are more open. All of our sense are more open. We become more aware.

 

In Love and Light,

Barbara Anne Rose

 

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