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In Love and Light

Author Barbara Anne Rose




American Cancer Society

Tuesday, May 15th, 2012

Event for the American Cancer Society this Friday! Black Tie event. Dress, shoes and clutch bought. Updo Friday. I am looking forward to meeting many interesting and intriguing people. Is anyone coming out to meet me, join me in this wonderful time.

Goddess Rose

Gratitude Surrendering

Monday, May 14th, 2012

I ask everyone who reads this to do your utmost best to never show negative or unhappy. I find it very important to not just be grateful but to show gratefulness for what you do have in the here and now. It is important to your mind, body, soul and spirit to live your life as a model of happiness, to leave wrong and blame at the door. We can not do or say anything to control another. Everything is information. Even when another says something to you or does something to you that feels ‘unpleasant’. It is our job and our job only to be our best in every situation, in every day, with all we meet and all we pass throughout our lives. Love, forgive, move beyond yourself. I would rather be spiritually intelligent than any other form of intelligence. Spirit rules me in my home and in every place I go because spirit lives inside of me at all times.

What a precious gift. To truly Surrender is to surrender 100%. It is the only way. You can not surrender 90%. It is either a true surrender or it is not. Some are able to do this, this some are not.  For those who are able to surrender I Thank you from the bottom of my heart. It makes a HUGE impact on you being able to receive what I give to you in your sessions.

Tears and pain are always our own doing. Angels never cause us pain, only joy and enlightenment for those who show up with gratitude and an open mind and heart. Your gratitude frequency is directly related to your faith frequency. 

In Love and Light

Goddess Rose

Past Hurts/Pains/Trials/Abuse

Wednesday, April 11th, 2012

Dear Readers,

I recently heard from a friend his reasoning for not dealing with past issues that he clearly knows trouble him today and have been for a long time. This “stuff” he has stems from how he was taught/raised in dealing with emotions/feelings stuffing them down; stuff, stuff, stuff, stuff. He wanted to say “It’s just a man thing.” Personally, I do know many men who are not afraid to voice their feelings. As we conversed what I heard was continual blame on this past, using it as an excuse. That he might as well just keep being the way he is. It is so ingrained into his being he doesn’t know how to act any differently yet he recognizes a change would be valuable to his life. He asked how do I do this? My first recommendation was to talk to someone he trusts. Someone he feels he knows would value his word. He can start off with explaining himself before explaining his past condition that has been interfering with his present life. I also let him know I am a safe person for him if he chooses to talk more in depth.

The first thing any of us can do is recognize our “stuff”. Once we recognize it then it is our duty and obligation to self to act upon it. To DO SOMETHING! His life will remain the same if no action is taken. I used my life as an example explaining that if I still held hate and did not forgive my ex-husband or father I would not be where I am now. My spirit would not be free. I would not have love growing inside me for ME right now. I would not have love inside of me to give others so freely now. I have come a long way. I have faith. I believe in myself. I move over above and through my own stuff. I have a healer teacher that speaks to me about things. When he speaks it pushes me to DO for my life because I know anything I do to help myself will only be valuable to myself, my life, my family, my clients, and anyone that enters my space. Change will never be comfortable.

If we are not changing and growing with True Love for others and ourselves every year this is called settling.  Do not settle for mediocrity! Do not settle to stay the same. Do not settle by staying in the past. Do not settle allowing yourself to be ruled by your past no matter who raised you, what negative influences were placed upon you. Get up! Be strong! Be a man! Be a woman! BE SPIRITUALLY FREE. You choose to be spiritually free or you choose to spiritually dead. What road are you traveling? What road do you want to travel? Are you willing and able to get out of yourself so you can find yourself?!  When will you get off the fence?!

In Love and Light

Goddess Rose


Monday, May 2nd, 2011

Believe the non-physical world of Divine energy has more authority than the physical world of form and matter.

As your own spirit takes command the world will also yield to it’s forces.

So long as we think like a wounded child we will love conditionally and with great fear of loss. Don’t settle to remain in this victim mode!

Who are the people you have yet to forgive? And what prevents you from letting go of the pain you associate with them?

When we are in a holding pattern it is because we know exactly what to do next but we are terrified to act on it.

The brain commands the behavior of the physical body but the mind commands the behavior of our energy body; which is our relationships to thought and perception.

Becoming conscious means changing the rules by which we live and the beliefs we maintain. A shift in awareness always includes a period of isolation and loneliness as one gets accustomed to the new level of truth. And then always more companions are found. No one is left alone.

Seeking a personal spiritual connection shakes us to the core. Once the process of removal begins we awaken to compete with every external authority in our lives, which can throw us into internal turmoil.

Now as you become aware of these truths learn to become even more aware. You are always worth it. I Love, Honor  and forgive me. I Love My Love. I Honor My Love. I always forgive My Love as I know and trust He always Loves Honors and Forgives me and himself.

A book I highly recommend is by Carolyn Myss called “Anatomy of The Spirit”   This is the book I read in the beginning of the year that helped transform me and help me start taking a deeper look into my own self for which healings have been taking place. I may be further along than some as some others may be further along than me. But we all have a path and need to start somewhere sometime.

In Much Love & Light

Goddess Barbara Anne Rose

Love & Honor

Saturday, April 30th, 2011

Forgive yourself anytime you are afraid. Surrender and faith are the keys to Heaven. Fear will never get you there. Anytime you feel stuck, not sure what to do, what to say, what not to do, take a moment to sit quietly with yourself. Weather this is in a special room, a special chair, a relaxing bath, go inside and ask the divine in you to present an answer. Relax in the moment. Allow and let your spirit speak. The left logical brain may interfere with spirit. When you feel this happening settle back in your spirit. I know it may be a struggle sometimes but don’t give up. Keep at it. Your Spirit resides in the center of you, your solar plexus. Sometimes it may feel contradictory to the mind/body because of logical thinking.

There are so many people that stay in unhealthy, destructive homes/relationships for whatever reason (mostly children) thinking your helping your family by staying in a relationship that ends up tearing away from yourself. Do not sacrifice your souls longing for what you think is more healthy for your children. I was scared as hell and yes my soul was dying a little over the course of these years. Seven times is the average attempts for a woman to leave a destructive relationship. We often marry for the wrong reason. I never let my husband rule my Spirit! I always stood strong to that. What I am saying, is that your children can and will thrive, strive and survive more in a loving healthy Spiritual surrounding. I know for a fact all of my children are better off now being divorced. It is unnatural to stay in a marriage if your soul is being ripped apart. Love YOU enough to get out of unhealthy relationships. If your desire is for it to work, or at least attempt to want it to work, then get therapy. (Please I am not a professional marriage sex educator-don’t ask me for that kind of help-that’s beyond my limits. You can incorporate both-me and therapy)

You are worthy to be happy in ALL areas of your life. Yes, it takes balls to speak up and say “I’m Done. I’ve been in pain for years. I just can’t do this anymore. I want out.” I am not advocating divorce. I am advocating following your passion, following your Spirit. I remember clearly when I going through counseling and weekly prayer group the more I followed God, my higher power, the more I grew spiritually gaining spiritual independence, the further away my marriage went. Growing up Catholic I didn’t understand that and was confused.

I remember a night driving home from prayer group asking God, “Why God, why is it that as I grow closer to you my marriage grows further apart?” I grew up believing once your married you stay married to the same person forever no matter what. After everything, I realized my purpose being with this certain man was to have my three children come forth. I wouldn’t be where I am now. A successful woman making it on my own with no help from man. I am independent and proud of how far I have come. So sweet women and men, if you genuinely feel deep within your spiritual being the time is up for a certain relationship then follow spirit. There is no reason to force yourself to stay in pain. Go where you know you are loved. Love YOU. Forgive YOU. I Love You. I forgive You. I am here always my dear beloved. Surrender to the Divine.

In Light & Love

Goddess Rose


Saturday, April 16th, 2011

Commitment what does it mean? What does it represent to you? When you hear the word, what does it feel like to your heart, your mind, your body? To me it appears so many people have fear of committing to the relationship they are in. It is easier for them to be committed to a job, volunteer work they do, committed to a hobby or extra curricular activity  that is in their lives. These things are all well and good on a superficial level and it can help you get to where you want to go professionally and socially. But I would like to pose a question to you as it pertains to commitment you may have or not have to your mate, your beloved, your special someone. It appears to me, in my eyes from what I have seen, so many people see the word and act of commitment equal control. Commitment does not equal control. Everyone, I would guess realizes control definitely doesn’t equal commitment. There is so much fear in love, in commitment, in honesty. Fear we will not be heard, be validated, be cared for, be believed, fear of rejection. For me I’d rather not waste time. I am who I am, all of me, all real, all love. Anytime I am in a relationship with someone, a romantic relationship, I am committed to that person. My love is so great that when I find joy being with the person I am with, I automatically so  they automatically receive a commitment from me. My commitment is not necessarily to that person. It is a commitment to the Love I have for that person. There is a difference. Because I love me  all the love I possess within me, it is easy for me to give 150% of myself. For me it’s a give in. It’s a natural ability. It’s just me because relationships are the foundation  of a healthy harmonious world. Not only do I think of it in terms of us, the two people involved, but it is bigger  & wider than that. It expands out to all of our surroundings, affecting everyone around us on a national and yes global level. Love has no end. Love has no beginning. Love IS. It just is. Love is letting go of fear. It really is. Through everything I have been through I find it absolutely amazing, almost miraculous that I in fact have so much love to give. I have actually grown the love within me. Deep within I know no one can take that away. No one can control my spirit. They hurt me with words with actions with lack of actions but never have I given up on Real Love Divine love. A love that comes deep within our hearts and souls. Back to commitment and people’s ideas and perceptions that somehow they think commitment equals control. That now I have committed myself to you I ‘have’ to tell you everything: where I’m going, what I’m doing, with whom, when I’ll be back, how long I’m gone. If that is what you feel is expected of you you may be right, you may be wrong but you really don’t know what is going on inside the mind of the other person. We all have free will and we all have free choice . We choose to believe what we want to believe without regard to trying to fully understand the other person’s thought process. I think this is where we get into so much trouble. Each person now thinking “You don’t love me.” “You don’t care for me” “Your not here” “Just what are you doing?!” It’s more about what the person is NOT doing as much as what they are doing. It could be you are in a pretty darn good relationship but there is something ever so small that is missing. Maybe it’s the lack of what they are not doing and what they are not doing is actually so very easy and simple to fix. We all know how men love to ‘fix’ things, something that is broken. They receive  joy and satisfaction in ‘fixing’ things, doing something to fix the situation. You hear “Honey just tell me what you want and I’ll do it” Men enjoy and they really do want to make their woman happy but yet it appears that anytime when we women show any emotion men interpret that as being ‘needy’ or ‘clingy’ asking of us to much. Then we react and think “You don’t love me. You don’t care! If you really loved me you would care to understand my tears or the man might say ‘If you loved me you wouldn’t have a problem having sex with me’  Constant blame back and forth back and forth until someone walks away or storms out the door. Now instead of being better it’s worse. So where does commitment fall into this? A commitment as being strong enough to stay and face your own stuff . It is being strong enough by not allowing ego or arrogance to get in the way. It is about becoming humble to at least attempt to look at what the other person is saying. Take a good look at your self instead of playing the name game of constant criticism, condemnation, judgment. There is no love in that. There is only fear. So many people leave at the first sign of trouble or if its not at the first sign of troubling times then why did they not speak up? If they did speak up then why is it still happening? You could go round and round and round thinking and even saying “Well you need to change” “Well I’m not changing until you change” Honestly I think that’s a cop out. It is a cop out to your own self, your own self awareness, self respect. How many of us even know what self love, self respect, self acceptance even really looks like? We have been handed down other peoples beliefs perceptions of what all this means. We have, I feel, become desensitized to what the true meaning is. When you desire and learn to know what a divine self love is about all else falls into place with ease. It then starts the path of everything becoming easier. And as you learn and grow through the mistakes of others and your own, you start to become more aware of your true identity, your soul your spirit . We are all spirit and this is where all good is where all love resides. It is within you. Have the commitment to your divine self. Let the other have his/her divine commitment to themselves. That is the starting point. Work together from there. Not the physical self the divine self. Do you know you have a divine self? In order to start you need to know you have one. The white light inside of you. That’s your spirit. All light is all love. Light feeds light. The darkness of your past can not feed light. It casts a shadow. Recognize your shadows. Our commitments to ourselves to others, our mates and our loved ones requires an open door for us to express what we see in them that may be going on. Then the commitment lies in the other person to look at it for themselves. To love themselves enough to honor themselves and their mate to just look at it. To be careful not to look at it as the other person critizing being mean in some way. It is an observation.  So much of it is in how we word ourselves, our tone of language, our body language. Reflect back and forth with the other so you are understanding of what was said. Mirror. Commit to that. Fear does not serve you. Humbleness does. I will end with saying embrace and love the word commitment. It is a gift you give yourself and to all those in your life. It says I DO.

In Love & Light

Goddess Rose


Sunday, January 9th, 2011

Hello All

Some of you know that my father passed before the end of the year, December 21st, 2010. Bear with me as I have a story I would like to share with you. I hope I will give you comfort and understanding as it comes to death from this physical body. Some people know some of the history of me with my father; the discord I had growing up.

I’m going to start with the day he came home from the hospital to receive Hospice Care. It was on a Friday. I had asked for a sign from above the Tuesday before to direct me on what to do as I had turmoil inside of me. The answer came telling me, “Focus on you right now, not this other person you have in your life that you “think” you need. He can not, nor is it his job to comfort you. Go to your father and love him. Tell him you love him. Give him peace. Love him with your mind, body, heart and spirit.

Whenever I receive promptings from Spirit I follow through because I know it is all for the good and healing for me. Its possible I could be helping him forgive himself. So I went to see my father. I made sure to see him every day until his passing.

On the second night, a Saturday night, when I saw my father, I leaned towards his face, my hands on his and sent energy of love. During this time I strongly felt the presence of an angel over us feeling what took up the whole room. Such beauty. Such a feeling of ultimate love and peace you can not know unless you have experienced angels yourself.

The third evening as I lay on the couch in my mom’s living room (My dad was in another room) I felt energy from my father leave his body. Hard to describe but I felt it. I felt a sensation from my heart and stomach and then it moved up into my head as i shed a tear. I was like “Whoa his energy moved.”

When I visited him on Sunday touching him with love I whispered in his ear, “Go in peace dad. You can come talk to me anytime. We can have long conversations whenever we want.” I know he hears me. They can always hear and see more than you think they can. Just because they may not be able to hear and see with the physical senses their inner being does.

When I visited him Monday I wasn’t really with him too much but I did notice he was dehydrating. My mom commented that he’s frowning because she could see the wrinkles in his forehead were more visible. I said “Mom, he’s dehydrating.” That was hard for her to take as I saw the expression on her face. I shed many tears. The tears weren’t because he was dying, but that I could feel his life force leave. I wanted my lover to take away the pain. But I knew I needed to go through this myself. Feel the feelings. Acknowledge them. Face them. Get through them. When I got home and went to bed, during the night I felt again spirit move. This time all the way out and I felt the peace and freedom of his spirit being out. I felt free and peace as he felt this freedom and peace. It was quite amazing. I had a better understanding of a body passing

Tuesday morning i received news of his passing from my brother in law. Services were December 29th, 2010.


Angel Barbara Anne Rose

Goddess of Love and Light