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Freedom

Monday, July 11th, 2016

Liberty is a mental state. Freedom is an emotional state. It is a resurrection. Tantra is both liberating and freeing. It can allow you to allow yourself to experience sensations and feelings you have never experienced before. Other worldly. Having this experience by yourself, for yourself, can be a brand new beginning into oneness with self, oneness with all. How is your mind? How is your heart? Are you moving on about life in a linear fashion? Are you just “sticking with the program?” Or are you ready to embrace all of who you are? Ready and willing to embrace the fears and fears that lay dormant in you you are not consciously aware of?

Working on our fears is probably one of the most challenging things we will do on this earth. But it is the most freeing. Being able to get out of self so that we can tap in, tune into our self (Spirit within) will serve us not only in this world, but the world beyond.

I can be of assistance for you to start that path. I am here as a listening guide helping you to move beyond yourself, offering words of wisdom that will give you strength to do the work. Nonetheless, you will be the one doing the work. For all of us are responsible for self.

 

In Love and Light,

Barbara Anne Rose

Coaching = Caring

Wednesday, April 27th, 2016

Do you have a coach? Are you looking for a coach? A coach can help you get from point A to point B a lot faster than many other means. A coach is someone who genuinely cares for your soul. They are there for you throughout your journey of whatever you are desiring to accomplish. I have come across several of my massage clients (or who wish to be my massage clients). As I hear them speak and they ask my professional opinion of the type of service they need, and I mention coaching, they shy away from it. I have come to the conclusion many people really do not know what it means to coach someone. They confuse coaching with counseling. And men generally shy away from talking about FEELINGS and EMOTIONS. Either because they don’t want to talk about such personal matters or they feel coaching is not what they need. But over and over again it is coaching AND massage they need. Because what they discuss and or want to discuss they want to discuss it in a massage setting. In a massage setting, this is not the time to discuss what’s bothering you on an emotional, spiritual, sensual or spiritual level. Can I help someone emotionally, spiritually, with my touch? Yes, I can. But when they are talking to me about certain matters there is only so much talking that can happen without it disturbing a massage (touch) session. To more fully be able to help another with the issues they bring to me, coaching sessions is the option I have available for them to use. It is a service I offer. I offer it because I have come across hundreds of individuals throughout my time being a massage therapist. It is why I decided to offer coaching and mentorship programs.

What is different with the Coaching and Mentorship Programs I offer is that I integrate the whole person. Clients of mine are not just paying me to listen to them, ask pertinent questions, and be nonjudgmental. What they receive when they use these services from me are also:

 

An Exercise Program

Nutritional  Guidance

A Caring Person

 

In Love and Light,

Barbara Anne Rose

 

Communication in our Sexual Encounters

Tuesday, March 15th, 2016

Communicating honestly is the most important thing we can do for our relationships. Many individuals today have trouble communicating their thoughts, their feelings, whats going on inside the mind. Working with my clients I have seen communication breakdown over and over again. They get tired. They get exhausted when they feel they have to repeat themselves to get their point across. What if we could imagine stepping into the other’s shoes. Even if only a little. We’re then able to get out of ourselves and into somewhat of a state of understanding where the other person is coming from. It’s hard sometimes to get out of ourself, our emotional heart center and into a Spirit centered place. Everything really is a lot easier when we can be directed from Spirit. If your someone who doesn’t believe that we are Spiritual beings inside human bodies, then I ask you to think it from whatever place you can that lets you think outside the physical self. If your more comfortable using the word “intuition”, “higher self”, “guides’, go ahead, Use what you are comfortable with.

When it comes to our sexuality, communication it still very important. We need to not be afraid to express what we would like to see happen in our sex lives. Men generally want to please their partner, but if their partner isn’t willing or afraid to communicate what he or she wants, then both parties get left disappointed. However, when we can be open to discussions around our sexuality, what we want, don’t want, or even what we would like to just talk about, then we open the door for further enhancement of the relationship. Weather an idea is acted out isn’t necessarily the means to the communicating, it’s the effects that happen during and after the communication! One of these after effects is a feeling of relaxation; a lift off the shoulders of what’s ben during inside to speak.

With the services I provide, such as my email and personal development coaching, I can guide you on what to say, what subjects to stay away from, the tone of your voice, body expressions, intentions behind your words, in order to help facilitate a healthy journey into a new sexual life.

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In Love and Light,

Barbara Anne Rose

HOURS LONG ORGASMS

Monday, February 22nd, 2016

HOW WOULD YOU LIKE TO HAVE ORGASMS LASTING FOR HOURS??!! THE GOOD NEWS IS YOU CAN. THIS CAN BE ACCOMPLISHED ALONE AND/OR WITH YOUR PARTNER.

This course reveals that there are essentially two types of orgasm.

Virtually every man and many women have experienced the explosive genital orgasm. Masters and Johnson, the noted sex pioneers, defined this type of orgasm as:

“The sudden discharge of accumulated sexual tension resulting in rhythmic muscular contractions in the pelvic region characterized by an intense sensation of pleasure.”

The explosive genital orgasm is the more common orgasm, but it is ultimately the less fulfilling one.

Apparently, it was the only kind of orgasm that Masters and Johnson, were aware of — and that’s probably the case for you as well!

To purchase click below and you can start today.

INCREASING YOUR ORGASM

In Love and Light,

Barbara Anne Rose

Valentines Day

Tuesday, February 2nd, 2016

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Valentines’s Day is close among us. Have you thought what you will get for your sweetie?

When you schedule a couples massage with Goddess of The Rose, she will enlighten your Spirit, soothe your soul, ease your mind and body as well as receive a rejuvenating experience for the two of you as a couple. You know you deserve it.

Goddess of The Rose can also teach you how to give and receive sensual massage in her workshops and classes so that you can please your partner. Visit her services page here. Visit her workshops here

In Love and Light,

Barbara Anne Rose

Goddess of The Rose

Prostate Self-Care

Thursday, November 19th, 2015

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Men over the age of fifty should get their prostate checked yearly. To help yourself on an ongoing basis click the article below to read how Ayurvedic products can help you. If you would like to purchase products to help yourself keep a healthy prostate click here:

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With Love and Light,

Barbara Anne Rose

Goddess of the Rose

The Afterlife

Wednesday, November 11th, 2015

The afterlife is something many are intrigued about and would like to learn of. But I need to ask you, how many are sincere in receiving this type of information? Do I know all the answers? Of course not. Nobody does. Anyone who has been on the other side and has come back or those who are able to “see” beyond the veil, their experiences are all theirs. It does not necessarily mean everyone will experience the same as another. Our life is an example of what we may experience on the other side depending upon many factors.

First, I believe, it depends upon how we treat others.

Secondly, I believe it is a true reflection of self.

Thirdly, I believe, it is about how spiritually enlightened we have become while in this physical world.

When we pass from this life into the next, when we see our loved ones, this is not an indication that we are seeing that particular person. What it often is, is a memory we have of that person. Keep in mind you are you and no one else. No one lived your life but you. Your experiences all belong to you. Your emotions all belong to you. Your feelings all belong to you. Your actions all belong to you. The way you perceive and react all belong to you. It’s about taking responsibility for ALL parts of our life and not blaming others. It’s about love and forgiveness to self and others, no matter what has happened. Your a Spiritual Being inside a physical body. This is fact. Why do you feel you need “proof” from some scientific study to prove a Spirit resides in the body. When you are able to recognize there is a Spirit inside you that is able to help you in this life, that is the beginning of the possibilities for miracles to happen, for a bright future, to help you make decisions in your life that will guide you each step of the way to bring out the best in you!

Spirit – its what we carry around inside us. When the physical body dies, Spirit still has free will to go and do in the Spirit realm. Therefore, because we still have free will, this means that not everyone releases old patterns or automatically loves and forgives all. Unforgiveness and an unloving attitude can go with us after death. Hence the reason why their are good, bad and evil spirits among us and in Spirit world. Let’s not fool ourselves into thinking that just because we die and pass out of the body, it doesn’t mean everything is going to be peachy king. Arrogance keeps one from realizing full truth. Will you like me less because of my take on this subject? Maybe you will. Maybe you will not. And that’s okay because I’m not here to please your soul in that way. I won’t be your fluffy bed of soft cotton and lilies. (I was going to say Roses but Roses have thorns and Roses will pinch and gnaw at the heart and soul to help wake you up!)

In Love and Light,

Barbara Anne Rose

Goddess of the Rose

Heart Opening

Monday, March 23rd, 2015

Have you seen recently on the news about ways to sit and stand to boost your confidence? As I was watching this newsworthy piece of work, I realized all these confident poses were done in a way that shows opening of the heart chakra. When we allow our heart chakra to be open, we are allowing the universe to bring to us heart warming people into our life. As well as opportunities for us to expand ourselves even more. Similar to the way we feel when we smile verses when we frown. It takes more energy to frown (and more muscles) than it does for us to smile. So raise your arms above your head. Turn your hands over so that the palm of your hand is up. Stand straight. Shift your shoulders in an upright position. Raise your head.

What ticks me off is that we “need” a psychologist with a M.D. or Ph.D to confirm this? Or any other “scientific proof” that sitting or standing in such a way is proof we will feel more confident!

Why is it that we humans seem to want or need scientific proof for EVERYTHING! We are smarter than we think. We are not unintelligent pieces of meat that need all of this or all of that crap. Yes, some of it is absolute fucking crap. We dont have knowledge of everything but I believe when it comes to feeling better about ourselves, I would at least like to believe that we KNOW smiling feels better to us in many ways than it does in how we feel when we are frowning. And we know we feel better when we stand straight, hips in line, shoulders up, head up, looking forward. Our eyes are more open. Our ears are more open. All of our sense are more open. We become more aware.

 

In Love and Light,

Barbara Anne Rose

 

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The Sixth Sense

Wednesday, October 22nd, 2014

Our sixth sense. We all have them. But are we using them in our life? Are we using them in our life to make better decisions? Do we use our six sense to help others in their life?

The six senses come from our Spirit. We are born with a Spirit being inside a physical body. Our five senses are:

Sight

Touch

Taste

Hearing

Smell

Yes, we can access our sixth sense through all of our five senses. The sixth sense is when we can see, hear, feel, smell and taste from a higher level. A level that is unseen. When we have the Spiritual gift of sight, this means we can see energy from the spirit realm. When we have the Spiritual gift of hearing, we can hear from a higher level. When we have the Spiritual gift of smell we can smell from a higher realm. When we have the gift of touch, we touch from a higher realm. Usually along with the hearing, seeing, touching, etc. comes a feeling and/or knowing. Because when we have a feeling there’s a knowing to the feeling that rides within it.

The most common sixth senses are sight, touch and hearing. They are called Clairvoyance, Clairsentience and Clairaudience. Claircognizance is the meaning of knowingness. It is just known, so the person can be told exactly what they need to know. Clairalience is psychic smelling. It is a phenomenon where sensitive people can smell the odors of a person/entity who is not of the earth plane. Clairgustance is being aware of tastes. It is being aware of taste without putting anything physically in the mouth by perceiving the essence of a substance through taste from the spiritual or ethereal realms. The sensation of what one is tasting is often linked to a spirit on the other side.

The “claires” I have been able to tap into are sight (my dominate Spiritual gift), hearing and knowing. However I do experience other realities through touch. It shows itself as a tickling sensation on the body when connection with Spirit. This usually includes the face, hands, and neck. Also spirit scents which are often floral.

When you are aware of these things, your gift will grow and expand into the other senses. This is a good thing. The more you are able to tap in, tune in and turn on your entire life will grow. You will see lol things from a new perspective. You will see others in a new light. You will begin the process of knowing more about what life really is about. Your own personal life, the cosmos and so much more. Hopefully this will give you the tenacity to want to learn even more about the unseen Spiritual world. It is a beautiful place when you tap in to HIGHER realms. There are lower realms as well. But that is meant for a different article.

Blessings

Be In Love and Light,

Barbara Anne Rose

Mind Chatter-How to deal with it

Monday, September 1st, 2014

I remember reading many years ago a book written by Charles Stanley. It was titled, “Cobwebs of the Mind.” There is one thing that really stuck out in my head. It is that all of us have the power within to change our thoughts. We can change our negative thoughts into positive ones. We can essentially, as Charles Stanley commented, re-wire them. This takes time. Depending upon how long we have been suffering and what we are suffering from, can depend on how long it can take to re-wire our brains to think and believe the opposite.

If you are someone who has suffered sexual abuse from a family member for several years it may take several years to change our thoughts from hate to love. From feeling like we are less valued to someone who has a lot of value. To recognize that we are a valuable human being with many talents (yes, I truly believe all of us have many talents) to give in loving ways rather then feeling like we have nothing to give back to society. Many times with sexual abuse we loose ourself. We start to think we have nothing and are nothing. That we are worthless and the only thing we may feel good that we can offer is sex. I understand. I speak from experience. I once thought that way about myself.

I was a victim of sexual abuse at the pure young age of three. My body memories remembered abuse happening to me from three to five years of age. It wasn’t until at the age of 29 did these memories surface. My youngest child, a girl, (my other two children are boys) who was almost three at the time, is when these memories showed themselves to me. Being the type of person I am, I asked myself the question, “Why? What am I feeling? What is happening to me?” I knew enough to question. I asked myself to provide the answers.With the assistance of therapists, a few of them by the way, helped me help myself to re-wire my brain. It was damn tough but well worth every second. One of the things that I very much enjoyed was my walks outside. I loved the sun, the clouds, birds and all of the animals I saw as I went on my walks.

So………when we work on getting rid of our mind chatter, our brains are ready to receive answers. Looking outside of ourselves, such as nature, helps do this for us. I believe it helps us tap into our self, our soul, the spirit within us. But first we need to be open and willing to accept that there are answers in nature. Many could argue is it the brain, the body, the heart, the spirit that receives these answers given? What I say is that in order for one part of us to open up to our truth, all the other parts of us need to be open to receive. It is all connected. We are all connected. We connect to ourselves micro cosmically and we connect to the universe macro cosmically.

A shift in energy is always followed by a change in our reality.

In Love and Light,
Author and Healer
Barbara Anne Rose
www.thespacebetweenthethorns.com