Posts Tagged ‘couples massage’

Couples Massage Valentines

Monday, February 8th, 2016

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Yesterday I and one of my sons were driving down to Bel Air, Md discussing many things Spiritual and Metaphysical. As we were talking a thought appeared in my head, (or perhaps from the depths of my inner being) knowledge. I love it when that happens. It’s an awakening. An oh wow, I get that. And then I ask the question, “Am I the only one that gets that? or Has anyone else figured this out? Duh, it seems so simple now.” I’m saying this to lead you into your own mind to wonder what the hell I’m talking about. Well, since my subject line is couples massage valentines, it’s about couples massages.

Have you ever had a couples massage and you and your honey are given massages by two separate people in two different rooms? THAT IS NOT A COUPLES MASSAGE. Thats just two people getting massages at the same time and you happen to be coming in together as a couple. How disappointing is that?! I bet that’s not what you were expecting. Or has this scenario ever happened to you.

You and your honey made an appointment to receive a couples massage and you are in the same room, but the therapist wraps you up like a cocoon? And at to far a distance to be close with your partner? Again, I ask, what kind of “Couples” massage is that! Again, it’s just two people in the same room. Probably NO connection with your mate in any way. Two physical bodies in a room being massaged by two separate massage therapists.

I think, and this is what I discussed with my adult son, is that it is important that the couple receive touch by the same therapist. The therapist works on both people at the same time. He (or she) develops and maintains the connection for the couple. The massage therapist creates a sacred space for the couple. It’s not just about having oils or candles to imbue a mood. The therapist’s touch does that. I’ll tell you what. I know I am able to do that. I know my gifts. I acknowledge my gifts. I USE my gifts. In every single session I give to others, no matter the type of massage it is. When I give a couple a massage I am working with THEIR energies. I am using my self that facilitates a mixing, winding, turning of energies within the two beings on the table, with my energy, in the entire room. It turns into an out of body awareness. Or at least a place where the couple feels relaxed, free, and their sensuality as a couple.

When I was in massage school already certified to give massages I was telling the other students I had a couple coming in for a massage. I will never forget it. Some of the students asked, “How are you going to do that? That’s impossible.” They didn’t see it possible for one person to massage two people at the same time. I didn’t care what they thought. I knew I could do it and do it successfully. My thinking was also that it is much more simple than they were making it out to be.

I have two massage tables. I have them close together with just enough space for me to be in between. I typically start the massage on the woman’s head, neck, face, around her shoulders and down the back. Then I move to the man doing the same thing. Then I move myself in between the tables and massage both of their arms (the arms closest to me) at the same time. It is quite easy. It doesn’t require thought for me to perform this. I also do their abdomen and legs at the same time. I do as much as I possibly can on BOTH people at the same time. Then I move back and forth from man to woman (or woman to woman) and back into the  middle again near the end of the session connecting them as a couple. Maybe I take the hand of the male and place it n the females shoulder. Maybe I take the woman’s hand and place it on the mans belly. Maybe I take the hand of the man and the hand of the woman and place both of their hands on my heart, rest for a few seconds and say, “Thank You.” All of this allows a creation, a connection, with the two of them, for the two of them. Massage modality for couples is Esalen. Therefor the draping is different.

If you and your honey are looking for a true Couples Massage fill out this contact form and I’ll get back to you ASAP.

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I am extending my hours to Sundays for the month of February.

Monday-Friday 9-8

Saturday 9-8

Sunday 9-8

 

Be Blessed and Stay Humble

Barbara Anne Rose

Valentines Day

Tuesday, February 2nd, 2016

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Valentines’s Day is close among us. Have you thought what you will get for your sweetie?

When you schedule a couples massage with Goddess of The Rose, she will enlighten your Spirit, soothe your soul, ease your mind and body as well as receive a rejuvenating experience for the two of you as a couple. You know you deserve it.

Goddess of The Rose can also teach you how to give and receive sensual massage in her workshops and classes so that you can please your partner. Visit her services page here. Visit her workshops here

In Love and Light,

Barbara Anne Rose

Goddess of The Rose